Passion is Thy Name!

Some call it Gaydar, some call it Gaytenna.
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Whichever term is used, it is definitely a ’skill’ that is good to have. Why? So that the guys can know when not to lead others on and the women can know who are the ’safe’ ones.
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Many moons ago, before my own gaydar was sharpened, I made the embarrassing mistake of trying to matchmake a good guy friend (who happens to be a PLU!) with a good gal friend. Result : Disasterous! I learnt very quickly after that how to tune my gaydar to the correct frequency.
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Of coz it helps that I started getting lotsa invitations to PLU parties. There had been parties where I was the only straight person in the entire room. They tell me that’s cos they feel comfortable to be themselves with me. Maybe it’s coz I don’t judge. To me, it doesn’t matter what one’s sexual preferance is. He/she is still a human being with needs and rights to how they wanna fulfill those needs, right?
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To quote my Sweetheart - "They leave you alone if you leave them alone. They don’t judge us. Why should we judge them?"
Yes, I love it that my man gets along super well with my PLU darlings!
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Sadly, a vast majority of our society is still intolerant of them. Some folks claim to be ‘open-minded’, yet their immediate reaction to the company of PLUs betray their close-mindedness. How pathetic. 
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Then there are the folks whose mannerisms reflect those of a PLU, yet he/she is as straight as an arrow. They confuse folks whose gaydar has not been tuned well, resulting in embarrrassing situations. But still, all’s good. As long as we keep an open mind about all things new/unfamiliar, things are still interesting and exciting, eh?
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How does one tune up his/her gaydar? Open up your minds and leave your judgements at the door when you chill with your PLU friends. You’ll be surprised at how much fun they can be!